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Psychotherapist

Welcome, I am honored you are here

This place was created so that you may get a feel for who I am and what I offer. I hope to answer some questions you may have. You may be a curious person who experiences things deeply. Perhaps there is something nameless and formless that you feel, and it is uncomfortable. Regardless of your experiences, I hope to nurture curiosity about yourself.

Hello!

I’m Chance

“We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love. Never so helplessly unhappy as when we have lost our loved object or its love.” – Sigmund Freud

 When beginning psychotherapy, we feel we are in an incredibly vulnerable place. Reaching out to a mysterious other can feel daunting. Where do I begin? It is a process that seems shrouded in mystery, yet I am to trust my feelings, and my wellbeing to someone I don’t know. Anxiety abounds in such a place! But I believe that this work is worth doing, and by even considering psychotherapy, you have enacted courage in the face of fear. Believe me, you are right where you need to be in this work.

 “Contradict myself? Very well then, I contradict myself. I am large, I contain multitudes.” – Walt Whitman

It is imperative that we remember that we are not simple creatures. We feel contradictions all of the time. We may love something dearly, yet wonder why we sometimes hate it. We feel it must be one or the other, and not recognize that there is nuance. When we contain the anxiety to “know,” and allow things to be as they are, we begin to open to a world that is alive. In opening this world, we may begin to have grace for ourselves, patience with others, and endurance to find balance in this life.

“Your visions will become clear when you can look inside of your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” – Carl Jung

My Services

Psychotherapy

Transform yourself with psychotherapy – take the first steps towards wholeness

Consultation

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